“We’re just ordinary peopleWe don’t know which way to go‘Cause we’re ordinary peopleMaybe we should take it slow.”
The lyrics of a song rang out in my mind last night
Not because I was listening to it nor have I heard this song in years
But because I needed that message.
Today it was a Eureka moment.
Yes, he knows where I stand, but I want to know where he stands.
With that, my mind gave me a gentle reminder, “Let him be the man.”
All this time I thought I was an independent woman who needed no one and could carry her own weight.
A woman who goes after what she wants because it is what she wants.
You see, I am now learning that being like that in a career and business is all good and dandy,
Not so much in relationships. It’s a ball squeezer, a cock blocker,
I had a hard pill to swallow.
I had to break it down and really dive into my subconscious to pull some wisdom out.
That’s when my mind said, “He doesn’t need fixing.”
Instantly my reply was ‘then what am I going to do?’
I am finally attracted to a man who is complete in himself.
He is a whole person. His flaws or scars are not that which control nor define him.
His thoughts are steered and simmer beneath the surface and he will not lose his composure.
This is it with him. I am now letting him be a man.
He knows where I stand and he knows how to find me.
His interest will show when he is good and ready.
No more inuendos,
No more insinuation.
No more planning.
I am letting him be masculine.
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